Famous singer Ahmed Ololade, aka Asake, has recalled how some people once took him โfor grantedโ because he was โtoo humble.โ
In a video making the rounds on social media, Asake, while chatting with a group of friends, stated that it is better to be egoistic than to be โtoo humble,โ as he emphasised that excessive humility often brings disrespect.
Speaking from experience, Asake said that when someone is egoistic, people feel the person is inaccessible and place more value on the person.
He said: โTo me, humility is like a waste of time. People donโt appreciate it. At the end of the day, life is about your perception. That is how I think. Itโs my world.
โIโve been around people, that I tried to let them say who I am but they didnโt appreciate it. As an artiste, if you come to somewhere, if youโre humble, they will take you for granted. But if you have ego, they feel like youโre not accessible so they will like you more. People would rather see what youโre doing than you showing them humility. So, just do what you need to do.โ
Video:
โIf you are too humble, they will take you for grantedโ
โ Asake pic.twitter.com/NdCNgRtahi
โ OLAMIDE ๐ธ๐ (@Olamide0fficial) December 5, 2023