The Founder of Genevieve Magazine Betty Irabor has named four couples she believes will inspire the younger generations.
Amongst which are billionaire entrepreneur Obi Iyiegbu aka Obi Cubana and wife Ebele Iyiegbu, and actress Mary Njokuย and husband Jason Njoku.
The others are comedienneย Real Warri Pikinย and husband Victor Asuoha; and actorย Francis Duruย and wife.
All the couples, Irabor noted, have been married for at least 10 years.
Commenting on her reason for toeing this line, the columnist wrote onย Instagram, โI get many messages requesting that I host sessions on Marriage and how I have stayed married for close to 4 decades. I would have easily acceded to this legion of requests but how do you sit down to talk about marriage to people whose marriage agenda do not align with yours?
โHow do you address people who already have a very โwokeโ mindset about marriageโpeople who see marriage as a disposable commodity?โฆPeople who already have plans B, C and D even as they exchange their vows; people who are not accountable to anyone. People who want to be both single and married in the same breath?
โI have been married for close to 40 years, yes but I am no where close to being an expert in that institution. What I have is experience and the lessons from such experiences. I had no role models or โcouples goalsโ to fashion my marriage after.
โMy parents were divorced and I was raised by a single mother. I simply entered my new role as a wife with the determination & commitment to make it work.
โHow do I address people who see my type as dinosaurs with an old-school mentality? What do old people like us know anyway(s) to come and impact a different generation with a progressive outlook on love, relationships, faith and marriage?
โGreat marriages never happen by accident; they happen because the couples involved decide to make it work as long as no oneโs life is at risk from the other.โ