Former Big Brother Nigeria housemate, Victoria Adeyele, better known as Vee, has distinguished between loving someone and being blindly in love.
OsunDailyNG reports that the reality TV star in an interview on the ‘Dear Ife’ podcast, said she has never truly been in love.
Vee also cited some of the red flags she cannot ignore in a relationship, noting that lying is a major red flag for her.
She said, “You know to enjoy love you have to have no guard.
“You have to completely trust someone. And maybe that’s why I don’t think I have ever truly been there yet.
“I think I have loved someone but I don’t think I have been in love, like blindly in love.
“[Because] there’s always something… I’m someone who would see a red flag and maybe fold it up and keep it in my pocket. But I have it and I’m aware of it.
“Everyone has their red flags, but I think one major one that causes me to step back and keep my guard up is the lies,” she said.
“I’ve been in a situation where a random account messaged me with screenshots, saying that they had been sending naked pictures to my partner.
“She said that she wanted to test our relationship on my behalf, and he had seen them and liked a few.
“When I presented the situation to him, he said, ‘Oh, my manager was on that account, people are sharing my account’ and … just the story wasn’t straight at the end of the day.
“But I just knew lies were being told because it will never make sense … you know you can always sense when someone is lying.”
