Popular Nollywood actress, Chukwukere Sarah Ujunwa also known as Sarah Martins, has sent a word of advice to single ladies.
Speaking via Instagram, the thespian advised ladies not to be scared of snatching married men from a “lousy and careless” wife.
She insisted that men deserve to be loved by other ladies if their wives are not treating them right.
The curvy actress went on to argue that it should be both ways, maintaining that a woman who is not being properly loved should also be snatched.
She wrote, “Never be afraid to snatch a good man from a lousy and careless woman! He deserves to be loved right…
“Same goes to women…Nobody is above snatching because everyone deserves to be loved right.”
A Man Can Love Both His Wife And Side Chick
Martin’s has also said that it is possible for a man to love, protect, and provide for his side chic while still loving his wife and family.
The thespian, however, stated that the same cannot be said for women as she argued that a wife can never cheat on her husband and still love him like before.
She opined that once a woman cheats she begins to look at her man in a condescending way and starts faulting everything he does.
The actress said that there are some side chics who love the men more than their wives do, to the point that they even support them financially.
According to her, ”I saw a lot of comments on the post I made yesterday about a cheating wife and a lot of people were justifying the woman’s action.
“Truth is, man can love his side chic, provide and protect her and still love his wife even more and will never neglect his family. But truth is But you see ehh, a woman can never cheat on her husband and still love him same way. In some cases, they start looking down on their husbands, begin to be authoritative over silly things, they begin to find fault in virtually everything their men does, the man that u fell in love with and had kids for will begin to irritate you for no reason.
They begin to compare their husbands strength with their man friend’s, they begin to harbor grudge more than necessary, they find it difficult to forgive or apologize etc. You all should stop comparing yourselves with men because men will always be men and the sooner you begin to accept the fact that you can’t compete with a man over infidelity the better for u.
“Most of these so called side chics loves your husbands even more than you do oh yes….. A side chic can support your husband financially, emotionally, sexually and spiritually but you as a wife can’t even lend him a kobo even when u have millions in your account as a sign of support to the family.
“I have seen where a man marries more than one wife and still love them equally but I’ve never seen where a woman marries more than 1 man. Even in the Bible MEN NA OUR OGA! Feminists if you insult me on these post trailer will jam u.”
